“People aren’t against you; they are for themselves.” – Anon
A few days ago I had a very difficult situation to work with. The dog in question, a Shar Pei mix, I’ll call Lisbon, was food aggressive (had actually bitten people and other dogs in the house) as well as resource guarding (resource guarding is the same as food aggression, only in place of the food, she was aggressively guarding areas in the house she deemed as her own).
If a dog is reacting with aggression over anything other than their safety (i,e., they’re scared of you), or the safety of their pack, that’s trouble. That’s the sign of a dog who is in the Pilot position, and who is frequently more than happy to try to take money out of your Piloting Piggy Bank. Remember, whomever has the most money wins, so frequently these dogs are indeed the Pilot in the house simply because snapping and growing over a resource works. Essentially, they tell you “no”, and it works because, well, teeth can be scary! The more often they tell you “no”, and the more often you accept that as an answer, the more money the dog has taken out of your Piloting Piggy Bank.
Most other things aren’t quite so dangerous to work with because we are working with questions that the dog actually hopes end in a “no”.
Will that other dog kill me?
Have any dogs ever died in a thunderstorm before?
No Fido, and I doubt you’ll be the first.
Resource guarding is different. A dog has decided that something is theirs, and no matter what, they are keeping it. Sometimes when I come into a house a dog is resource guarding, but their heart really isn’t into it. They’ve accidentally become Pilot in the house because the owner has never properly communicated with the dog, letting them know that they don’t have to be Pilot. Hint: most dogs don’t even want the job!
These dogs aren’t resource guarding so much as taking all the perks that come with the Piloting position. For a dog, being Pilot can be scary, terrifying, and generally sucks. Just like not every human feels comfortable leading, the same is true for dogs. If they’re going to be Pilot, there had better be some perks that come along with it! These include the right to eat first, the right to sleep where they want to…basically, the right of first refusal for anything. For the dogs who aren’t even really into the Pilot position, and didn’t want the damn job to begin with, merely Piloting them and taking the money out of their bank is sufficient. They aren’t true resource guarders.
As Danika mentioned in her blog post On Food Reactivity….Nothing Personal. Really., they aren’t doing it because they hate you. Or because they want to hurt you. In their minds, you are asking a question: Can I have that back? They are answering your question (No), but you aren’t listening, apparently, so they have to answer it with more force, until you finally back down.
Dogs and wolves are a pack. They are a single entity driven towards one thing, survival and continuation of the pack. In the pack, only alpha male and alpha female breed. They are the Pilots. They have (for the moment) the best shot of perpetuating the pack because they are the best dogs/wolves in the pack. Obviously this can change. Dogs and wolves don’t vote in who they think is the best for Pilot. There’s no bribes. Either you are or you aren’t and accepting another dog’s “no” to a question you asked can take enough money out of your Piloting bank to no longer make you Pilot.
So back to resource guarding. It isn’t a bad behavior. Remember, nothing a dog does is bad; it’s always perfectly correct. For a dog. However, as humans, we can not safely tolerate resource guarding. It’s dangerous, and for kids, it’s the second biggest reason I see them get bit, (first is teasing or torturing the dog). The difference is, a bite because a child is manhandling a dog is usually a sudden nip. Yes, it may cause blood even (remember, you’re supposed to be covered in hair and loose skin, like a dog, not soft vulnerable flesh), but it’s typically not that bad unless the dog hit a lucky spot. With resource guarding, it can be a lot, lot worse.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: resource guarding is one of the few things (the only?) that I will tell a client to put a dog down for. Yes, they can be worked with, and you can indeed take the Piloting position back, but you will have to defend it the rest of your dog’s life. They may challenge you at any moment. You may absent-mindedly drop food on the floor, lean over to pick it up, and the dog decides at that moment to claim it, meaning a bite.
These dogs can be the sweetest, kindest dogs on the planet, as Lisbon is. Wonderful, loving family pets. But once the food comes out, they are like a vampire who hasn’t fed being led through a blood bank. Yucky, ugly things ensue.
So back to Lisbon: how did things end? Well, they haven’t yet. They never will. Some dogs you can slack with on the Piloting and still be fine. Lisbon’s owner will always be on alert for any sign Lisbon is trying to take money out of his bank. Lisbon’s owner is single with no kids, so he doesn’t have to worry about a child being bit. He also understood the severity of the issue. He is dedicated to the training regime, which includes:
- Feeding Lisbon after a successfully Piloted walk. A walk done correctly (read: you are leading, not your dog) takes money out of their Piloting Piggy Bank. We want to empty Lisbon’s account out as much as possible before feeding.
- Lisbon will always be on a leash during feeding times, just like you always wear a seat belt in the car. You may never truly need it, but there’s nothing like feeling safe to help bring out the Pilot inside of you.
- Hand feeding Lisbon. Food only comes from him, and no other source. We want to remove everything as a possible option for Lisbon to acquire food. She need to be dependent upon her owner for all food. Food is placed on the counter, and Lisbon will be seated and fed one handful at a time, and only if she is calmly waiting.
- Removing signals that may increase energy during feeding time. For example, when Lisbon sees her owner grab her food dish on the counter, she knows her owner is about to feed her. Her energy level goes way up, and she can be difficult to manage. Lisbon will never be fed out of a bowl again. Even the vessel used to contain the food while she is being hand fed will be switched out frequently so she never knows if food is coming or if her owner is merely grabbing a cup for some coffee.
- Dropping food on the ground doesn’t mean it’s yours!!! Lisbon’s owner, while hand feeding Lisbon, will occasionally gently place food on the ground behind him, moving very slowly. If she lunges for the food, he can redirect her with the leash, wait until she’s calm, and then slowly pick the food up and throw it away. Lisbon will never have the right to food on the floor. Ever. If she remains calm during that little exercise, she will get another handful of food.
- Never toss food at Lisbon. The very act of snatching food in the air is aggressive. In some dogs it’s not a big deal, and is even amusing (Darwin could catch food out of a dead sleep!), but those dogs aren’t really jockeying for Pilot position. We are driving the point home that calm is the only thing that gets Lisbon food, and lunging towards food won’t be accepted any more.
- Getting her used to disappointment. A lot of resource guarding dogs get upset and retaliate if they think they were about to get food but don’t. For example, the now-defunct food bowl. If Lisbon’s owner simply picked up the food bowl to move it without feeding her, Lisbon might retaliate. You were supposed to feed me, remember? Touching the food bowl is a visual marker that is supposed to end a certain way, and if it doesn’t…bad things happen. So he’s going to get her used to disappointment. Dropping the food on the floor is a good start, but sometimes putting food in a cup on the counter, creating calm with Lisbon, and then dumping the food back into the bin, all in a controlled manner. Calm doesn’t always get Lisbon food. It’s merely the only way she might get food. It’s like the lottery: you don’t always win, but unless you play, you aren’t going to win.
I have great hopes for Lisbon and her owner. Lisbon is a great dog, and they made wonderful strides in the two hours I was with them. Lisbon’s owner is dedicated, and he understood the severity of the problem. If anyone has a chance at a safe, wonderful bond with a resource guarding dog, it’s him.